Positive Attitude Towards Life

An year ago,I always thought ,”Why it’s me?

Why all the troubles and hurdles are only for me??

Why Almighty Allah wants to see me suffered by all these troubles?

I always thought that I’m an un-wanted person who is worthless in this world.My days passed in disappointment and frustration.I was an extremist person and all the time absurd thoughts entangled my mind badly.It’s very difficult for me to get rid of them.Depression of whole day never prove a good symptom for any one.

As a whole,I reached at my wrist end and totally cut-off my-self from this selfish and cruel world.I became a book worm.Every day a new book became a friend of mine.All my day passed in study and whenever I would have some time I read historical,religious books but that depression never leaves me alone.61-quran-quotes-an-nahl-16-18

Short conversations with fellows and observations towards the world proved me that garden of innocents now rusted with selfishness.The human being of this so called ”modern era” needs to ”Being Human”.Humanity is vanished from this garden.Now people get pleased to see you ruined under their feet.I thought what to do with me?Am I bad or this world?Why was I born?The biggest regret i have ever in my life was that why was i born as a girl?Why i’m not a boy? Why I’m not a part of a happy family?Why I lost my dad ? Why circumstances came to at my wrist end?Why nobody loves me?…As a whole you can say me a psycho who had many imaginary regrets and then weeping on them was her favorite hobby.My self became a question mark for me.

A lot of smiles came to my face when I think about all these passed things.How insane was me.In last two years,a sudden turn came to my life.A lot of changes came into my self in which the best change was in my thoughts.My negativeness converts into positiveness and I would become strong.I start to face the world .I realize a concern that if you want to be strong ,learn to fight alone.I realize that it does not matter what others think about you.It’s your life not others.So, I should do what I want to do not what others want to see.

As a consequence my all absurd thoughts vanish and world become a love-able place for me.What happened if nobody wants or loves me.I put my self in love with all the creatures of my merciful Lord.A permanent smile sticks on the face of that girl who have nothing to do but weeping.I thought,”I’m alone”. but i realize that i’m not.

A voice came from the core of my heart,there is one who never ever leaves me alone,who blessed me with countless capabilities and loves me infinite.He can do what he want to do.He says me to tell my all problems to Him and He’ll prepare a new pathway for me and never ever lost me in this blind world.Then,Why I’m un-thankful and frustrated?

I simply wipe out my tears and say to Him that how much I love Him.How much I’m thankful to be a love for Him.O my Almighty merciful Allah.Yeah! I love you from the core of my heart.I’m thankful to you for all those things,capabilities and blessings which you shower on me without my question.Thanks for creating me a complete human being.I know that you always love me and never ever leave me alone.You are enough for me.

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Rabiya Butt.

 

Mery Shoq ki Na Tu Baat Kar.. <3

Wo naseeb kesa naseeb tha,Us naseeb ki na tu baat kar,
Tery sath guzra jo waqt tha,Us waqt ki na tu bat kar…

Tera alwida mujhy kehna,tera mur kar na phir daikhna..
Wo jo lafz tha tera akhri,Us lafz ki na tu baat kar…

Tu juda howa me wohen raha,Aik lamha bhi na chal ska..
Wo jo safr tha tera akhri Us safr ki na tu bat kar…

Wo jo dil tha mera ajeeb sa,wo bhi sath mery na reh ska,,
Wo jo sans thi meri akhri Us sans ki na tu baat kar…

Mery qalam ny jo kuch likha ,tujhy khud perh kar na suna ska,,
Mera qalam mera raqeeb tha,mery RAQEEB ki na tu baat kar…

Wo tera wadaa-e-shab yad hai,wo kabhi rat meri na kat ski..
Wo jo khawab tha mera khushnuma,Us khawab ki na tu bat kar..

Wo jo aina tha tery roobro usi ainy me hai tu hoobahoo..
Mera mashgula hai usy daikhna,mery shoq ki na tu baat kar..

Rabiya Butt

Women’s Role..

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Now a days,women are playing a vital role in the progress of a country and nation.They are working in every field of life whether it is teaching,engineering,medicine, literature,Army,business or accountant officer etc.World needs their workings for the inauguration of new pathways for the upcoming generations.

That time gone when a woman was skilled only with house-holding knowledge and all of their life passed in these daily casual workings.I’m regretful that these women have no ambition in life except to wake up early in the morning and clean the house then,make breakfast for their whole family and then see all the day T.v dramas and do back-bitings of their neighbor-hood and shed tears on their imaginary problems.I ever think that if it would be a purpose of a women’life?Almighty Allah made her same like man.My lord is a very fair judge.He gives both of them same capabilities .

Allah command justice and fair dealings.(Quran 16;90).

Yeah! I know that there is some limitations for a girl in this world and I don’t think so that these limits and boundaries are wrong for her.It’s the basic need of the feminism but it does not mean that she have to live her life useless.As when she was on the death bed and thinks what she did in her whole life.There would be nothing just to increase the population of this already heavily populated world.

There are girls like Arfa Karim Randhawa whom the whole nation feels proud.There were a flood of tears in every Pakistani’s eyes at her death in 2012.May Allah Almighty rest her in peace and give her high rank in heaven.She was the real daughter of the nation.She was given a very short time period by my merciful Lord but she proved that female can do every-thing as done by a male.

There are a lot of examples of those women who get fame in this scientific world by doing a lot of workings which can’t be denied.Nation love those gorgeous and talented ladies.Every person has a hidden talent in him-self.There is just a bit need to explore that talent.

Some people are dead but their characters has kept them alive while other’s are alive but their character has killed them.

Women should be armed with the weapons of knowledge and education. That’s the basic need of present era.They should get admissions in educational institutes for the polishing and exploring the talent hidden in them-selves.They do jobs in every field of life.Women should be work hard to create their place in this fast moving society.A woman can’t depend completely on any-body neither on her father,brother nor on her husband.She has to do some-thing for her own-self,for her nation, for her country and for this world.She has to fulfill the purpose of her birth.

I think in our society the purpose of a woman’s life get accomplished when others feel proud to have her.When suddenly the difference between a son and a daughter came to an end. That’s the most beautiful words of a daughter’s life when her parents say,’’Yeah! She is my daughter but for me she is more than a son. I’m proud of her.’’

There is no tool for development more effective than empowerment of women

I just want to convey a message to all those women who think that they are nothing with-out a man. Then, it’s a wrong attitude.You can do every-thing in this world.Islam is a very broad religion.It gives both genders same equality then why women are thought to be a worthless creature in front of a man?You all have to ask this question to your own self and I think you’ll get the answer very well.

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Stay Blessed always 🙂

Rabiya Butt 🙂

Chashm-E-Tar

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Chashm-e-Tar Ka Alam Har Pal

Aik Khamoshi Si Chai Dil Per

Har Qadam Ki Chaap Per

Har Ahat Ky Sath Sath

Guman Hota Tum Aay Ho

 Dil Me Yadon Ky Kanty chubty

Or Chashm-E-Tar Ka Alam Har Pal

Lab Hain Khamosh Sy

Lafzo Ki Mala By Ma’ani Jesy

Rooh Py Chai Aik Verani

Rooth Gai Jesy Duniya Sari

Tu Hi Tu Hai Ander Bahir

Sanso Me,Dharkan Me

Teri Hi Khushbo Basi

Tu Hi Tu Hai Mujh Py Chaya

Ya Rab Sun Len Duaen Dil Ki.

Ho Kisi Pal Wo Guman Mery Robroo

Or Chashm-E-Tar Ka Alam Har Pal

 

Rabiya Butt 🙂

Food Challenge

I always think that mother is a very special gift of the God for us.She do every thing and fulfill all our desires without taking care of her own-self.I don’t know what she add in her dishes that I can’t feel that taste even in a cook’s dishes.Simply she is a blessing to me.

I’m a girl but remain too busy all the day.So,can’t do cooking (secret is that I don’t know to make food except noodles and some items which I like the most).Reading is my hobby and even when exams over I collect a lot of stuff on historical an Islamic topics and then,my mom call me book worm get rid of these books and my reply one minute just came and that one minute always take an hour.hahahaha

The thing which forces me to leave my seat and books is the temptating smell of Biryani.My favorite food items are:-

  1. chicken biryani
  2. dahi baary
  3. pasta
  4. seek kabab
  5. noodles
  6. white chicken korma
  7. bean salad and chat
  8. afghani rice

Now,you know about my favorite dishes.Whenever my exams start she tries her best to make all of them for me because mostly I forget to eat any thing in exams.hahahaha basic problem of every student.As the title  seems it’s a challenge but I didn’t take it as a challenge just for fun.

Anyway,I have been challenged by a very cute person whose Blogs I always enjoy  Saiz.It’s his post https://ahmadsaiz.wordpress.com/2016/01/12/food-challenge/ 

Rules:

  1. You have to tell the person who is nominating you what is your favorite food?
  2. You have to write your feelings not the recipe.
  3. You have to add the picture of the dish.
  4. Nominate 7 more persons for the challenge.

My Favorite Dish:Chicken Biryani

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I think a cook can’t make a better food than my mom because he can’t add such love in his dishes as my mom can.Whenever I come from college simply goes towards the kitchen and hug my mom and says what you make in the lunch.She kissed me on my forehead and say what you want to eat and my answer is as usual noodles.haahahahahaha (phir aik nazr gusy wali kuch or bhi kha liya kro hahahaa love that moment.itna mza kbhi ni aa skta jitna unky hath sy khilay aik niwaly me hota hai)

Simply you can say that a mother is the best love ever who even angry with me but care for my food.

My Feelings:

Whenever that temptating smell of biryani come to me less than a minute a leave my seat and go in the kitchen and asked her Ohh really is it biryaniiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii….hahahaha I want it spicy always and she make it always very tasty.(My mouth filled with water once again hahaha).Atleast 2 plates can easily eaten by me when lunch is biryani.Whatever the mood I have but it’s smell changes my mood into a very happy mood.I think I’m still a kid.

The Nominees are:

  1. Imran Ali from https://shakeyourconscience.wordpress.com/
  2. Hammad Rais from https://hammadrais.wordpress.com/
  3. Akhila from Word and Notion
  4. Kally from Middleme
  5. Rebecca Dawn from Prince charming is not here
  6. Sumit from SumitOfficial’s blogs
  7. Hell’e Chante from hellechante.com

I hope you like my award and accept my challenge sooner..Best of luck..Stay blessed.

Rabiya Butt 🙂

Desire For The Moon

If you desire ,desire for the moon,If you fall ,you’ll fall among the stars.

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More than 6 billion people are present in this world.Every minute 180 new born take breath in the air of this world.Now,you can better imagine by your-self how populated the world is ???

Scientist discovered that at the very beginning of science that Sun is stationary and Earth is revolving around it and it’s own axis.Then, a new theory came that there are also present eight more planets revolve around the Sun.They all have their own revolving moon may be one  or more in numbers.Then a new discovery discovered by scientist that numerous galaxies like our are present in this universe.

Now , for a minute imagine our galaxy in non-countable galaxies,then our planet Earth in which life exist and then our country ,our city,our home in this universe.

In order to succeed you desire for success should be greater than your fear of failure.

We all are born for a reason.Nothing is useless in this world.We have to find out the cause of our birth,identify our-selves and then struggle hard to achieve our goals.I think an ambition for life gives you a right direction to live.Do you think that you have any worth in front of the huge universe??Certainly not…….

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Our life span is like a flower as it blossom and then wither.Time is the thing which never wait for any-body.It goes on with its speed whether you like or not.Set a goal for your-self and do your best to achieve it.Aimless life is useless.The motive of you life is not to follow a daily routine as you do your ordinary work and then die….This is not life in actual.Many persons born in this world live their lives like this.The question is ,do you like this way of life???what is the thing which causes difference in between you and this world???

You have to do something extra-ordinary,something un-common,un-usual which makes the difference.Do you want to lost in the crowd of this world???Do you want to lost your identity in-front of others???I think No-one wants this….

A creative man is motivated by the desire to achieve not by the desire to beat others.

As in my blogs I often mention that nothing is impossible in world.You can do every thing which you wants as you just have to compile your courage and say yes to it…..

You have to do it now not later as your future is created by what you can today not tomorrow.Don’t waste your life in hesitation or doing worthless activities.Do some-thing rocking which may shock the world.If you are born ordinary it’s not your fault but if you die ordinary it’s your fault.

Your name should be in the list of those who are alive in the history of the world and in the hearts of people even after a time span of centuries.As death of your body is eternal but death of your passion and name is not…Give some-thing stunning to the world.We all have abilities to do some-thing extra-ordinary.You’ll like the taste of your success after a lot of struggle .

Striving for success without hard-work is like trying to harvest where you have not planted.

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Rabiya Butt 🙂

Help Others

Man is called ”Crown Of Creations”.Allah blessed him with the light of knowledge and thinking ability.This world is like  garden and we are all flowers here.Some flowers are full of fragrance and beauty which actually shows the purity of heart and soul.While some are dull in color and smell-less that actually shows contamination of evil-hood among them-selves.

Human beings are superior to all other creations because of their feelings and emotions.We can feel our pain and sufferings,our problems.But why we can’t feel the pain of others???Why we close our eyes on others sufferings???Is it superiority???Is this humanity???

We can see many people in our surroundings.Some of them even not known to us but a sudden meeting with them please us or disturb us.

Success is nothing to do what you gain in life or accomplish for your-self.It’s what you do for others.(Danny Thomas)

There are three types of persons in this world.First of all those who are too selfish,only feels their own sufferings and troubles.They think that they are miserable.They always cut a sorry figure towards their life because they never show contentment.They want more and more because of their greedy nature.

Secondly,those who can see the pain and problems of others but never do any-thing to resolve or help others.I may call them a fair-weather friend.

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Thirdly,those who can see and feel the pains and sufferings of others.Make them their own headache and try to resolve them whether they have the ability to do that or not…These type of persons have pure heart and soul.The world may call them fool but in actual they are much intelligent than all of them.

If you resolve other’s problems today,Allah will resolve yours.You’ll get an un-deniable peace of heart and mind.You’ll always remain calm and keen in all situations as there i no problem to you.You’ll become that flower of this garden who always remain pretty and full of fragrance.

Be a beacon of light in some-ones darkness.

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Always remember that if a flower wrinkled or died ,it never loses it’s smell.Even if some-one plucked it from the twig ,it lasts it’s smell on one’s hands.

When I see that kind of persons,my heart fill with respect and love or them.A lot of prayers arise from the depth of my heart for those who not only hide their own tears for other’s smile but also wipe other’s tears.They are made to be called Superiors while others need to be being human.

Rabiya Butt 🙂

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