Hey I’m not writing a blog or article at this time.I’m very very happy.I’m just too much excited because I’m going to hilly areas for three days with my college tour.
An year ago,I always thought ,”Why it’s me?
Why all the troubles and hurdles are only for me??
Why Almighty Allah wants to see me suffered by all these troubles?
I always thought that I’m an un-wanted person who is worthless in this world.My days passed in disappointment and frustration.I was an extremist person and all the time absurd thoughts entangled my mind badly.It’s very difficult for me to get rid of them.Depression of whole day never prove a good symptom for any one.
As a whole,I reached at my wrist end and totally cut-off my-self from this selfish and cruel world.I became a book worm.Every day a new book became a friend of mine.All my day passed in study and whenever I would have some time I read historical,religious books but that depression never leaves me alone.
Short conversations with fellows and observations towards the world proved me that garden of innocents now rusted with selfishness.The human being of this so called ”modern era” needs to ”Being Human”.Humanity is vanished from this garden.Now people get pleased to see you ruined under their feet.I thought what to do with me?Am I bad or this world?Why was I born?The biggest regret i have ever in my life was that why was i born as a girl?Why i’m not a boy? Why I’m not a part of a happy family?Why I lost my dad ? Why circumstances came to at my wrist end?Why nobody loves me?…As a whole you can say me a psycho who had many imaginary regrets and then weeping on them was her favorite hobby.My self became a question mark for me.
A lot of smiles came to my face when I think about all these passed things.How insane was me.In last two years,a sudden turn came to my life.A lot of changes came into my self in which the best change was in my thoughts.My negativeness converts into positiveness and I would become strong.I start to face the world .I realize a concern that if you want to be strong ,learn to fight alone.I realize that it does not matter what others think about you.It’s your life not others.So, I should do what I want to do not what others want to see.
As a consequence my all absurd thoughts vanish and world become a love-able place for me.What happened if nobody wants or loves me.I put my self in love with all the creatures of my merciful Lord.A permanent smile sticks on the face of that girl who have nothing to do but weeping.I thought,”I’m alone”. but i realize that i’m not.
A voice came from the core of my heart,there is one who never ever leaves me alone,who blessed me with countless capabilities and loves me infinite.He can do what he want to do.He says me to tell my all problems to Him and He’ll prepare a new pathway for me and never ever lost me in this blind world.Then,Why I’m un-thankful and frustrated?
I simply wipe out my tears and say to Him that how much I love Him.How much I’m thankful to be a love for Him.O my Almighty merciful Allah.Yeah! I love you from the core of my heart.I’m thankful to you for all those things,capabilities and blessings which you shower on me without my question.Thanks for creating me a complete human being.I know that you always love me and never ever leave me alone.You are enough for me.
Wo naseeb kesa naseeb tha,Us naseeb ki na tu baat kar,
Tery sath guzra jo waqt tha,Us waqt ki na tu bat kar…
Tera alwida mujhy kehna,tera mur kar na phir daikhna..
Wo jo lafz tha tera akhri,Us lafz ki na tu baat kar…
Tu juda howa me wohen raha,Aik lamha bhi na chal ska..
Wo jo safr tha tera akhri Us safr ki na tu bat kar…
Wo jo dil tha mera ajeeb sa,wo bhi sath mery na reh ska,,
Wo jo sans thi meri akhri Us sans ki na tu baat kar…
Mery qalam ny jo kuch likha ,tujhy khud perh kar na suna ska,,
Mera qalam mera raqeeb tha,mery RAQEEB ki na tu baat kar…
Wo tera wadaa-e-shab yad hai,wo kabhi rat meri na kat ski..
Wo jo khawab tha mera khushnuma,Us khawab ki na tu bat kar..
Wo jo aina tha tery roobro usi ainy me hai tu hoobahoo..
Mera mashgula hai usy daikhna,mery shoq ki na tu baat kar..
Now a days,women are playing a vital role in the progress of a country and nation.They are working in every field of life whether it is teaching,engineering,medicine, literature,Army,business or accountant officer etc.World needs their workings for the inauguration of new pathways for the upcoming generations.
That time gone when a woman was skilled only with house-holding knowledge and all of their life passed in these daily casual workings.I’m regretful that these women have no ambition in life except to wake up early in the morning and clean the house then,make breakfast for their whole family and then see all the day T.v dramas and do back-bitings of their neighbor-hood and shed tears on their imaginary problems.I ever think that if it would be a purpose of a women’life?Almighty Allah made her same like man.My lord is a very fair judge.He gives both of them same capabilities .
Allah command justice and fair dealings.(Quran 16;90).
Yeah! I know that there is some limitations for a girl in this world and I don’t think so that these limits and boundaries are wrong for her.It’s the basic need of the feminism but it does not mean that she have to live her life useless.As when she was on the death bed and thinks what she did in her whole life.There would be nothing just to increase the population of this already heavily populated world.
There are girls like Arfa Karim Randhawa whom the whole nation feels proud.There were a flood of tears in every Pakistani’s eyes at her death in 2012.May Allah Almighty rest her in peace and give her high rank in heaven.She was the real daughter of the nation.She was given a very short time period by my merciful Lord but she proved that female can do every-thing as done by a male.
There are a lot of examples of those women who get fame in this scientific world by doing a lot of workings which can’t be denied.Nation love those gorgeous and talented ladies.Every person has a hidden talent in him-self.There is just a bit need to explore that talent.
Some people are dead but their characters has kept them alive while other’s are alive but their character has killed them.
Women should be armed with the weapons of knowledge and education. That’s the basic need of present era.They should get admissions in educational institutes for the polishing and exploring the talent hidden in them-selves.They do jobs in every field of life.Women should be work hard to create their place in this fast moving society.A woman can’t depend completely on any-body neither on her father,brother nor on her husband.She has to do some-thing for her own-self,for her nation, for her country and for this world.She has to fulfill the purpose of her birth.
I think in our society the purpose of a woman’s life get accomplished when others feel proud to have her.When suddenly the difference between a son and a daughter came to an end. That’s the most beautiful words of a daughter’s life when her parents say,’’Yeah! She is my daughter but for me she is more than a son. I’m proud of her.’’
There is no tool for development more effective than empowerment of women
I just want to convey a message to all those women who think that they are nothing with-out a man. Then, it’s a wrong attitude.You can do every-thing in this world.Islam is a very broad religion.It gives both genders same equality then why women are thought to be a worthless creature in front of a man?You all have to ask this question to your own self and I think you’ll get the answer very well.
Stay Blessed always 🙂
Rabiya Butt 🙂